tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1725939352735117385.post6871070927434333076..comments2013-03-04T21:53:25.406-05:00Comments on All Because Two People Fell In Love...: Almost December Already....Celynhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12679457161116074177noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1725939352735117385.post-52857015040535663962010-01-01T22:14:41.841-05:002010-01-01T22:14:41.841-05:00Okay I know this is a late comment but frankly I t...Okay I know this is a late comment but frankly I think your friend is ignorant...I'm sure she is a sweet person and I apologize for insulting her, but why in the name of heaven would she say that to you?<br /><br />What you lost was the dream of that child. Because what most women do when they want to get pregnant and find out they are is start thinking about that child. You dream about when they're born, when they go to school, when they graduate and when they give you grandbabies. They could be gestating for a mere couple of weeks and if you know you are dreaming about them.<br /><br />When you miscarry the dream of that particular child dies and what's worse for women who miscarry is the fact that they do not have the closure of a body to bury.<br /><br />No one should belittle someone's mourning. I think it's cruel and unfair. So in answer to your question she is NOT right. You lost a very real child. You are in the process of healing from that. So allow yourself to do that and learn to hope again :) *hugs*Sherihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03695848819409975356noreply@blogger.com